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How an Art-World Insider Became Naples' Top Auctioneer

Gabriel Butu sharpened his instincts in blue-chip galleries and celebrity ballrooms. Now his freewheeling auctions help Naples nonprofits break records.

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On February 6, 2025, The Ritz-Carlton, Tiburón, set the stage for the STAR Gala, STARability’s annual benefit for individuals living with disabilities. The event’s fundraising highlight, the live auction, arrived on the heels of a 100-donor Fund-A-Need paddle raise that set expectations for the evening high. With each new lot, bidding wars broke out, establishing rival camps among the familiar faces of Naples’ philanthropic set. With each winning bid, cheers erupted. At the center of the controlled madness, a young, tuxedo-clad auctioneer named Gabriel Butu was running from table to table, breaking a sweat, calling out patrons by name, cracking jokes and coaxing bidders to raise one more paddle.

Among the evening’s lots were a Bahamian getaway, a 10-day Tanzanian safari and a private dinner at the home of two of the nonprofit’s patrons, who weren’t in the room but were keeping tabs on the auction via WhatsApp. Gabriel expected one of the international trips to be the night’s big-ticket item. Instead, two bidders drove the dinner to $100,000 and refused to yield. After a quick message exchange with the lot donors, Gabriel announced that they’d be selling the dinner twice, doubling STARability’s take and capping off the evening with $500,000 raised at the live auction and a record-breaking $3.2 million overall. “I got a real education in Naples that night,” Gabriel says.

A year and a half later, sitting in a hotel cafe alongside his wife, Patricia, and 3-month-old daughter, Gabriel has shed his larger-than-life stage persona and traded his tuxedo for a pair of casual slacks and a polo. “For me, talking to 1,000 people is easier than talking to one,” he says. “Getting out in the crowd like that, building up the excitement, it’s really me fighting my inner introvert.”

“For me, talking to 1,000 people is easier than talking to one. Getting out in the crowd like that, building up the excitement, it’s really me fighting my inner introvert.” — Gabriel Butu 

In two years, the Dutch-raised, St. Petersburg, Florida-based auctioneer has become one of the region’s most sought-after charity hype men. This season, he expects to conduct nearly 30 local auctions, including benefits for Gulfshore Playhouse, Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, Naples Art Institute and the Women’s Foundation of Collier County. 

A 2012 graduate of Christie’s M.A. program, he has fronted charity auctions from New York to Los Angeles, elicited record-breaking donations, and hammed it up tableside with everyone from A-Rod to Kevin Hart. But Naples’ philanthropic scene, he says, is uniquely energetic and unusually cohesive.   

In his estimation, the Gulf Coast city takes the qualities that make an auction successful to their extremes. Every city has auctions where people know each other, but in Naples, interconnectedness is the standard. Across the globe, many patrons feel deeply connected to the causes they support. In Naples, the culture of charity buy-in runs deep. It’s a philanthropic ecosystem powered by connections that exist among its patrons, nonprofits and causes. People don’t just donate, they volunteer, serve on boards and give their time. The causes they support, more often than not, play a direct role in improving the lives of people in their communities. It’s a visible, tangible cycle of passion and purpose that creates its own momentum. Glancing over at his wife and business partner—a philanthropy consultant he says is the ‘M’ to his ‘Bond’—Gabriel admits that his job can be exhausting, but that he can’t help but feel inspired. “Over time, you begin to feel that you’re becoming a small part of that ecosystem yourself,” he says.  

Prior to 2024, Gabriel’s familiarity with Southwest Florida’s philanthropic scene was sparse. He’d served as auctioneer for events at Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples and Community School of Naples, but was not well known to the community. But the CSN gala got him on the radar of Naples philanthropist and TV personality Courtney Hansen, who was set to emcee Youth Haven’s 2024 Starry Nights gala. Courtney and restaurateur, Youth Haven board member and event chair Ingrid Aielli reached out to Gabriel, and Ingrid quickly fell for his energy and charming accent. “He had a sit-down with us—I’ve never experienced anything like it. He wanted to know each person who would be in the room,” Ingrid says. The strategy paid off. “There was an energy in the audience that I cannot even describe,” she says. “Everyone was raising their paddle. He was like a magician.” The auction closed at $2 million, a leap up from the previous year’s total of $1.3 million. Gabriel’s regional presence was set.  

Soon, calls were rolling in from other organizations.  “He’s really changed the paradigm [for galas] in Naples,” says STARability executive director Karen Govern. She credits Gabriel with the organization’s recent fund-a-need growth and record-breaking success. “He encouraged us to be public with our goal at the event and track progress in real time. He was so right about this because everyone in the room was able to celebrate the success of achieving and then going over the goal,” she says.

For all his freewheeling showmanship, Gabriel’s methodical approach is what drives the magic. He studies the cause, the guest list and auction items for months, negotiating what might be sold multiple times with lot donors and memorizing preferred nicknames and friendships he can play off. “Half of the success of the auction comes from that prep,” he says. It allows him to build relationships in a moment, notice nonverbal cues of interest, playfully pit friends against one another and remind people why they showed up in the first place. “Go wild and go human,” he says. 

Gabriel didn’t start out dreaming of being an auctioneer. Growing up, he attended galleries, ballets, operas and classical concerts with his Irish mother. 

By college, his pursuits were practical. He studied economics at the London School of Economics, intending to become a stockbroker. After a post-grad internship at a hedge fund, the idea lost its luster. On a whim, he decided to take a contemporary art course at Sotheby’s. “I decided to intern at Timothy Taylor’s art gallery in London,” he says. That led to a career in art-world sales, first under Timothy, then with billionaire art dealer Larry Gagosian. “It was really about the art of the sale for me,” Gabriel says. “It was watching Larry close on a Picasso and celebrate with the team like he’d won a touchdown. That’s what I wanted from being a stockbroker—the celebration, the high energy, the human touch.” 

As he moved up in the industry, Gabriel worked alongside Simon de Pury and Alexander Gilkes, famed art and charity auctioneers. He partnered with Alexander to launch Paddle8’s auction division, putting his strategic business acumen and marketing prowess to work. Gabriel, for his part, picked up their tricks: Alexander’s copious pre-auction notes and humor, Simon’s propensity for dipping into the audience. Still, he did not picture himself behind the lectern.

Then, in 2014, Gilkes asked him to fill in at a charity event in Beverly Hills. “I was imagining a little bake sale with some grannies, but no, it was Rihanna’s first Diamond Ball—Jimmy Kimmel hosting. I didn’t even own a tux,” Gabriel says. “The only way I really survived it was by going into the crowd.”

One of the first he noticed had tech tycoon Elon Musk, then best known for Tesla and SpaceX. “I just zeroed in on him,” Gabriel says. “He’d say things like, ‘Listen mate, if you don’t have an Enigma machine, I’m not bidding. You got any rockets?’ He was a good sport.” The exchange gave Gabriel the jolt he needed to keep working the room. “People stopped talking and paid attention,” he says. “I felt less nervous. The show became the audience; the donors became characters.”

Soon after his auctioneer debut, a gig working for Phil Collins’ Little Dreams Foundation introduced Gabriel to Florida, where he and his wife decided to settle. Now, from November to March, he spends most of his time in Southwest Florida. “Naples has just been the most wonderful discovery,” he says. “It’s a real community, a united front.” As cocktail hour chats turn into familiar faces from one event to the next, Gabriel is finding his place on the Gulf. “He knows everyone now,” Ingrid says. “He just keeps getting better.”